Dear Family and Friends,
I’m writing you today to thank you for your kindnesses in April & May. They have come in the form of visits, flowers, food, gifts, a discretionary fund and donations to Team Monica in the Race for Hope. Our team which raced on May 5th raised over $3000 and was ranked 164th out of 593 teams in our fundraising efforts. I also want to thank anyone who has given me or my daughter a ride somewhere since I am unable to drive. I am overwhelmed with love, care and support from everyone. My network of friends and family and your prayers is such a comfort.
My routine at the moment is to get up at 6:30 a.m. with Franklin and Jessica and help get them out the door. Franklin has been doing this alone for the past 4 years because I normally left for school at 6:30. I get dressed quickly since I don’t have to take any time to do my hair. I have several beautiful wigs, great hats and scarves! A friend or family member picks me up daily (Mon. –Fri.) at 9:00 a.m. to take me to radiation at Southern MD Hospital in Clinton where Georgetown has a satellite office. I’m usually home by 11:00 a.m. My side effects include headache, nausea, red forehead, hair loss, brain swelling and fatigue. I will finish radiation on June 7th, take a break and then begin chemotherapy.
I’m trying to stay active with running, working Algebra problems, reading lots of books, caring for my 24 year old horse, Dolly and keeping up with my family. Speaking of family, Franklin has done a fantastic job doing all of the paperwork required for this journey; he does my share of driving Jessica to her daily activities. Jessica has been incredibly mature, caring and nurturing. Alan was awesome to spend his Spring Break at the hospital with me and to create the blog www.monicasstatus.blogspot.com. Thank goodness Franklin’s parents live next door. They pick up Jessica from school, take her to feed Dolly, shop for me and cut our grass.
My wish is to get better so I can enjoy my life with family and friends. I have faced the reality I will be dealing with this the rest of my life and it will kill me eventually. My prayer and deal with God is to help me be here until at least 2020 to see Jessica graduate from high school and to be with Alan and Franklin. Thank you for all of your love, support and prayers.
Love,
Monica Chaney